Ask yourself - what would my life be like if I was truly following my heart? Doing things I genuinely like to do and being the kind of person I truly want to be. It could be something like this - if I’m someone who prioritizes peace of mind over ‘being socially accepted’, why do I spend so much of my time being surrounded by people who aren’t actually close to me in reality? Or maybe something like this - if being a wonderful father is one of my top priorities, why don’t I work on my anger issues?